Examples of needs that can make sex safer and more satisfying..

1) I want you to pull out when you cum.

2) I want you to not sleep over if we hook up.

3) I want us to check in 2 days later after we have sex.

4) ‘No condom, no sex!’ and be willing to receive sexual rejection if he resists on this.

5) I want to know your intent, is it a one night stand or are we exploring a more long term connection. Listen for the energy not the words in their response.

6) I want no phones in the vicinity when we hang out.

Each and every one of these needs is 100% valid and you can receive pleasure that is satisfying and explosive while having these or similar needs met.

You deserve to be met in the way that makes your whole being relax into your embodied pleasure.