What is abuse?

It is the absence of informed and embodied Consent. Usually by the hiding of intent and manipulation of someone’s vulnerability to override boundaries to fulfill once own personal agenda or goal.

Eg:

Not revealing your intent behind asking for a hangout while relating with someone.

Lying about a choice you made out of fear thereby allowing another to feel crazy.

Using strategies of harm instead of harmony when destruction is brought into an existing way of doing/being. Any relational or organizational crisis.