The paradox of societal expectations on my sex life

From my culture of origin’s perspective I am a slut.

From the culture I live in, I am Underfucked.

My poor yoni can never live up to anyone’s expectations…
Why can’t my sex life just be exactly as it is without it being under or over a societal standard?

My sexuality, as true and natural to me, is my bodi’s readiness meeting someone whom I truly want to have sex with. If that is over or under someone’s body count index, they can just go and fuck themselves.