When I feel the freedom of an asshole forfeiting his sexual pursuit of me. This one took 8 years! #thankyouGod&Goddess

A no is not internalized, accepted and respected by immaturity and insecurity.

Who: WhiteMale Lion
Desire: Propose & Play
Date of Pursuit: 2016 sometime.
Date of Defeat: TBD
Years of expressing rejection: 6 years and counting (since September 2020)
Collateral Damage: Creative, Corporate, Social, Professional Abuse.


Who: Asshole BBC
Desire: Puncture
Date of Pursuit: July 19th 2018, Thwarted attempt of Drink & Drive, July 22nd 2018.
Date of Defeat: March 18th 2026.
Years of expressing rejection: 8 Years.
Collateral Damage: Lost three of my close friends, and a few hookups. Abuse of my blog posts within his bro group and with his body doubles. Creative, Social, Professional Abuse.

Who: Socialist Fuckboy
Desire: Plug & Play
Date of Pursuit: August 2019
Date of Defeat: TBD
Years of expressing rejection: 5 years and counting (since Feb-March 2021)
Collateral Damage: Lost my comadre. Creative, Social, Professional Abuse.


Who: Bokachoda
Desire: Plug & Play
Date of Pursuit: (He remembers it, I don’t) Sometime in 2002.
Date of Defeat: December 25th 2025.
Years of expressing rejection: 18 years.
Collateral Damage: Lost two best friends, a cousin, and one hookup and one potential lover. Creative, Social, Professional Abuse.


#naturalwomen don’t need to know the brocode or have a sorority to break a play. Our naturalness makes us avert such pursuits. And if a natural woman is anchored in her connection to the Earth, ancestral wisdom, and God, she is unconquerable by immaturity and insecurity.

PS: So far, one successful (hit and run) fuck and forget, and a slip and slide by players on my body.

Kâli Sapien