What is fulfillment?

In Sovereignty:

When we feel enlivened and fulfilled by just being ourselves and not social time or sexual time.

Feeling alive, whole and complete in solitude with nothing but yourself is healthy sovereignty and develops within the interdependence of a family that is led by sovereign individuals who also have the capacity to healthy interdependence.

In Interdependence:

Where we feel met by another human emotionally, mentally, physically, sexually, intellectually. It does not have to one person, but any relational experience where we feel a sense of being seen, felt, understood and honored for our and their authentic pleasure, joy and enlivenment.

Eg: A talk with a friend where the conversation flows in a way that is mutually nourishing.

A mentorship relationship where we feel anchored deeper in our truth mutually.

A sexual exchange where we feel satisfied and complete without having had to earned by means of roles, commitment, or fawning to the more powerful bodies preference. Where the sense of satisfaction is mutual and not lopsided.