The day you feel congruent ghosting or gaslighting your own child, you will have the Earths permission to do the same to a womb keeper of Sapien species.
Wisdom that the pursuit of Union and the birth process unfolds is that if you are ready to be a father, that choice will never feel congruent, no matter how horrible the woman you tried to score with was. Meaning how unworthy of respect you felt she was.